Lundy Bancroft's book: https://www.amazon.com/Why-Does-He-That-Controlling/dp/0425191656 National Domestic Violence Hotline: 800-799-7233 More online resources: https://www.thehotline.org/ List of domestic violence hotlines by country: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_domestic_violence_hotlines Time Stamps: 0:00 Intro 1:21 The #1 cause of abuse 3:04 The abusive mentality 13:14 Why this mentality develops 22:48 Takeaways