In today's video, we gather a bunch of gays with a diverse range of backgrounds to candidly discuss our dating experiences in the Japanese gay scene and why we feel unpopular here. What are the beauty standards here and how do we fit (or not fit) into them? What's the view on foreigners? How does position factor in? Is this just a problem within the gay community? Or are we just whining for no reason? Watch on to find out! Join the conversation on navigating this complex scene and fostering more inclusivity in Japan. Like, share, and subscribe! 🏳️‍🌈🇯🇵 #LGBTQ #JapaneseGayScene #Inclusivity ♥Patreon If you would like to support the creation of more videos like this and see behind-the-scenes and/or extra content, please join us on Patreon! ・Patreon: @tokyobtm ♥Follow our Friends on Instagram: ・Carlton: @finnsta.bae ・Cris: @crisxchance ・Akio: @akio.and.yuzu ♥Follow Us on Instragram ・Tokyo BTM: @tokyo_btm ・Meng's: @bragixm ・Andrew's: @puguk84 ♥Camera Tools📷 ・https://amzn.to/3tSjdZe ・https://amzn.to/3Otu7wE ♥See You Next Time Theme ・Ikson - Think U Know // https://youtube.com/ikson ♥Chapter 00:00 - Video Intro 01:22 - Panel Intro 03:46 - Why the Sad Face? 08:18 - What are the Standards? 09:04 - Are Our Standards Too high? 12:40 - Are Foreign BTMs Not Popular? 15:32 - Is Race a Factor? 18:41 - Is Japanese Ability a Factor? 22:55 - What's the Affect on Our Confidence? 24:22 - Isn't Foreign Culture Popular in Japan? 27:15 - Wrap Up ♥Music ・Kevin MacLeod - Monkeys Spinning Monkeys ・Comedic Background Music - Funny Money ・Bensound - Jazz Comedy ・Trash Kid - Hellacious Hilltops ・Trash Kid - Sarcastic Shop ・Trash Kid - Nocturnal Knoll ・BGM DOVA - ぐだぐだな感じ ・BGM DOVA - え？今なんて？